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.Sunday, March 23, 2008 ' 11:15 AM
IM FINALLY BACK:)

oh my god! i havent been updating for like close to a month? thats scary! and people who meet almost everyday (like YIXIAN) keeps "reminding" that my blog is gradually becoming a HISTORICAL SITE. what the hell. so, in order to prevent my blog from becoming one, i finally decided to update! weet:)

actually. tons and tons of things happened. there were HAPPY ones, as well as DISHEARTENING ones. perhaps, its true when people say "GOD is fair. when you gain something, you will in turn lose something else" its the second time already! and sadly, i didnt learn from my mistake from the first time. MAYBE, people like me dont even deserve having a second chance.

OKAY. shant talk about the sad stuffs. lets move on to the HAPPY:) ones.

IM FINALLY 18!!!

actually, it has been almost a month plus since i turned 18! haha. but. well, i was seriously TOO BUSY to update my blog and talk about my birthday celebrations. moreover, some of the pics taken havent been sent to me yet (actually, only HUIQING). but well, i think i will just post those photos i have now with me, i think by the time i wait for HUIQING to send me hers, perhaps, its already cmas.

but. i dont really feel like blogging on my birthday celebrations and stuffs. too tedious. maybe some other time when im really feel and in the mood to blog about the few birthday celebrations i had for my 18TH BIRTHDAY. next time ya:)

basically. nothing much happened today. just woke up early and came online. suddenly remembered its really TIME to update my blog. and here i am, writing crap. maybe its bcos i havent been blogging for a long long time...

i'l be back with more INTERESTING entries, I PROMISE

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.Thursday, January 31, 2008 ' 6:50 PM
received this email from XINYI, YONGXIN and WEIQING. seems pretty true. but. im not a guy, so i dont really know. guys, do you all think these are true? :))

1) "Hey, are you busy?" or ''Are you doing something?'' are two phrases guys start with to stop from stammering on the phone

2) guys may be FLIRTING around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about

3) before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there arent awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes

4) guys go CRAZY over a girl's smile

5) guys will do ANYTHING just to get you to notice him

6) guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. unless they're going for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method

7) a guy who likes you wants to be the ONLY GUY you talk to

8) boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved

9) dont talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend

10) guys get JEALOUS easily

11) guys are more EMOTIONAL than they'd like people to think

12) giving a guy a hanging message like 'you know what? uh...nevermind...' would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. and he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it outg

13) guys are good FLATTERERS when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like

14) guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. so they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. but it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway

15) girls are guys' weaknesses

16) guys are very open about themselves

17) its good to test a guy first before you trust him. but dont let him wait too long

18) your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being ADMIRED by your boyfriend

19) if a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. you dont need to give advice

20) a usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you

21) guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships

22) guys will brag about anything

23) guys use words like HOT or CUTE to describe girls. we rarely use beautiful. if a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot

24) no matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, PERSONALITY is key

25) guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience

26) guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped

27) guys think WAY too much. one small thing a girl does, even if she doesnt notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant

28) guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused

29) any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships

30) try to be as straightforward as possible

31) if the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl

32) if a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside

33) when a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. guys rarely say that

34) when a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, ''please come and listen to me.''

35) guys dont really have final decisions

36) if a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. it doesnt happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up

37) if your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably JEALOUS and likes you

38) when a guy tells you that you are beautiful, dont say you arent. it makes them want to stop telling you because they dont want you to disagree with them

39) when a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something

40) guys like femininity not feebleness

41) guys dont like girls who punch harder than they do

42) a guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes

43) dont be a snob. guys can be intimidated and give up easily

44) everything in moderation. put on makeup, wear perfume. just not too much

45) guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys

46) guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more

47) if you are going to reject a guy, just do it. dont say they are like a brother or just good friends, IT HURTS EVEN MORE. tell them that you arent interested in a relationship and they will respect you

48) guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them

49) a guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day

50) no guy can handle all his problems on his own. he's just too stubborn to admit it

51) not all guys are assholes. just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of us

52) we dont like girls who are too skinny

53) we love it when girls talk about their boobs

54) always make sure you know what kind of stuff your getting into before making out with a guy. like wheather its a one time deal or not

55) believe it or not shy guys are the most easiest to talk to. it may not seem right but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and unoticable tell them about yours.

56) when a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually

57) even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs.

58) guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it. it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts.

59) guys will test the waters to see how far they can get with you. even if he doesnt intend to it will happen. know how far it is you want to let him go and he will respect that. after you let him know a couple times.

60) when a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.

61) guys hate SLUTS even though they have sex with them! (oh yeah. you're not 'popular' if you've slept with more than 6 guys. you're a HOE)

is it true? hmmm. i wonder...


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.Wednesday, January 30, 2008 ' 11:45 AM
HAPPY BELATED THIRD ANNIVERSARY TO PSJYQ!!!

EVERYONE ACTUALLY FORGOT ABOUT IT! like what YVONNE smsed. how could we! everyone forgot about it except LEETING! omg. omg. anyway. BETTER LATE THAN NEVER right?

btw. if you are like wondering what PSJYQ is. it is the name of a group of really DIFFERENT, SPECIAL and CRAZY girls. we may all be different from each other, but each of us are really UNIQUE and SPECIAL IN OUR OWN WAYS. and. perhaps, its the difference in all 10 of us that drew us all together as one. like what people say, UNLIKE POLES ATTRACT. its so true in our case! yes. we are all so different from one another but surprisingly, we all came together as one and became friends!

all of us were all previously from jurongville concert band. but because of an incident, we met, came together and decided to be friendsforever. PSJYQ actually stands for panseh.jiangyiqi (讲义气). sounds stupid? WE DONT GIVE A DAMN! we chose this name because three years ago (28jan), all of us went for a band concert. on the way home from laupatsat. we practically ran when we thought it was the last train! and because of this, those who ran faster go up the first train, leaving the rest behind. so. the first group who got up the first train was the PS group because we actually left the rest behind and got up the train. the other group was the JYQ group because they actually waited for those who couldnt run.

was i the PS group or JYQ group? haha. not going to tell you!

that. was how the whole group formed. and actually, i really thank god for that day and that incident. if not, i wouldnt have got myself A GROUP OF FRIENDS THAT ARE ALWAYS THERE FOR ME, NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS.


to PSJYQ:
i am really really blessed to have all of you, to be there for me in good times and bad times. i know i havent been a real good friend and person. i know i have quite a big ego. and i know im a very prideful person. i always throw my "princess" temper around and im like forever emo-ing. i can still remember the huifang being hospitalised incident! and eversince then, i have been reminding myself never to let history repeat itself. i ask for all of your forgiveness for all the mistakes ive done. im trying my utmost best to be a better friend and person. i just want all of you to know that all of you, each and everyone of you is really very very very important to me. although there are times when we might get into small arguments over minor things like where to go for dinner and stuffs, at the end of the day, all of us know that we mean alot to each other. thanks for being there when i was at my lowest and letting me feel that its okay to lose someone but to gain a group of friends. i know we still do have internal conflicts and i really hope that in this new third year, all our internal conflicts will be resolved and all of us will be back to normal again. let us all work together towards our 4th, 5th, 6th and many many many years, okay? i hope that even when we have all grown up, we will still be celebrating our anniversay, perhaps with our boyfriends, husbands or children! thanks for always being there for me and thanks for being that special group in my life. PSJYQ, i love you all :)


evidences to our 3years strong friendship!

yvonne's 18th birthday.


cmas celebration at kaining's.

band grad 2006.

band grad 2005.


thailand trip.

my best overseas trip, ever.


istana.


bbq. nouxian and daph's birthday.

muscial night.


huifang's birthday?

band concert.


our very first neoprint together.

28jan2005. the day our story started.

collage.

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.Tuesday, January 29, 2008 ' 3:20 PM

chinese medicine. ewww.

i didnt finish the whole course. waste of money :x

my first set of medicine.

medicine from the second trip to another doctor.

third set of medicine for THROAT INFLAMMATION.
see how sick i am. u can send or give me a GET WELL SOON sms or call! :)
my mc.

UNFIT FOR SCHOOL FOR 2DAYS!

IM FINALLY UPDATING MY BLOG!!!

at last. im finally back! I DONT WANT THIS PRECIOUS BLOG OF MINE TO DIE!!! so before it does, i MUST UPDATE, UPDATE AND UPDATE! some of my friends have been complaining that i havent been updating my blog. its not that i dont want to, but. I HAVE BEEN REALLY REALLY BUSY! down with projects and the weekly PRINCIPLES OF ACCOUNTING TESTS, omg, i dont even have the time to watch teebee la. sad. but nevermind, im updating now! HURRAY!

sad case. actually, i can update today because im down with 2days mc! poor thing right? my health hasnt been very good this year lors. about 3weeks ago, one morning i woke up with a terrible sore throat and started coughing badly for the next few days. it became so bad that i had no choice but to make a trip to the doc's. i think my classmates in school esp people like YIXIAN, MINGHUI and the rest knows how BAD was my BAD. it was so terrible that my family members was worried that it might be the start of another ASTHMA RELAPSE.

so after my first CAT lesson, my dad brought me to a chinese sinseh near mI. sorry, but ive never believe in chinese medicine. and this, didnt prove me wrong too. the sinseh said that my cough was nothing serious, just because i had a sensitive throat. GO AND DIE CAN? i was like coughing so badly and you said its nothing serious? she gave me powered medicine and i tried, but to no avail.

so after a few days, i had no choice but to make a trip to the clinic near my house. bcos they had a record of my last recent ASTHMA RELAPSE. so i went, took the medicine and was issued a day's mc.

the next morning, my family told me to go to our family doctor cos my condition wasnt improving, instead, it was deteriorating badly. so i went and the whole cycle repeated. another day's mc.

the next day. i went to school and thought that everything was back to normal. but, sadly, it didnt.

i didnt listen to the doctor's instructions and paid no attention to my diet. they advised me against taking spicy or fried food. but, i didnt take the instruction seriously. and ate as normal. i had spicy food from my school's canteen, CHOCOLATE CHEESE CAKE and CHICKEN CUTLET for my friends' birthdays and LAKSA from my most favourite stall! and all these were the cause of what happened 3days ago.

my throat started worsening. it was a little sore from my previous bad cough. and after all the yummy but POISONOUS food, it became so bad that i could hardly talk on sun(27/1). i cant even sleep that very night cos each time i swallowed my saliva, it hurt so much that i was awaken from my sleep! try swallow 2STREPSILS at a go, that was how i feel when swallowing food, water and saliva! HURT LIKE HELL! so on monday, like what EDWARD said, i was practically mumbling. so last night, i had no choice but to see a doctor, again...

doctor said i had a TERRIBLE AND SERIOUS THROAT INFLAMMATION. my whole throat's practically red and swollen. thats why its affecting my speech. i cant talk normally. kept on mumbling, cos i cant open my mouth too big. dots. and, the swell's worst on my left side of the throat, thats why, even my left ear was affected, cos its linked. whenever i swallowed something, my throat and left ear hurt like crazy! omg. ITS PRACTICALLY HELL! luckily, the medicine was effective, after my 2nd course, i can now swallow things normally. hopefully, i will be almost fully recovered on thursday when i return to school.

better take care of my health this year. 4days mc at the start of the year isnt something good for me, who hasnt taken mc since p2? take care, take care :))

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.Wednesday, January 9, 2008 ' 3:49 PM



FIRST ENTRY POST FOR YEAR 2008!

o...kay. i know. its going to be more than a week into the new year. yet. ONLY NOW then im writing my very first post for the new year! omg. i must have been too busy. IN FACT, i really am! before i start complaining about my schoolwork and stuffs, let me talk about how i actually spent my last day of twenty o seven!

actually. wanted to blog about the whole of 31DEC. but realised its alittle too lame to talk about it. BASICALLY. i just went to MARINA BAY to watch fireworks lors. yarhs. my family was four of the thousands there. my dad parked his car at CHINATOWN POINT and we walked there. wise choice! cos. its not crowded there and it isnt far! perhaps. 20mins walk? went there. walked to the bridge, chose a good spot and waited. and at 12 SHARP, the whole event started! what can i say about the whole thing. just.

"GREAT MUSIC. GREAT AMBIENCE. GREAT FIREWORKS"!!!

the aftermath was chaotic! people and cars cant move! the road was supposed to be closed from 8pm till 2am and bcos the whole thing was too chaotic for the police to handle. they had no choice but to open the road just after the fireworks. its was DAMN dangerous la! but the cool-est thing is. after the fireworks, almost everyone was WALKING ON THE ROAD! first time i see so many people walking on the road and even when the cars honked, they DONT GIVE A DAMN and carry on walking.

but. this year's countdown fireworks is really really NICE! although perhaps, its not as nice compared to other country's but i personally feel, its really UP TO STANDARD! im so so so going to go again end of this year! :))

uh oh. was supposed to blog about my first week in school but i ended up typing such a long post on my last day of twenty o seven. dots. maybe i'l blog again tonight!

byebye! :)


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.Sunday, December 30, 2007 ' 10:20 PM
received this email from junrong.
quite interesting.
shall blog about my today, tomorrow ba.
cos everything's linked.
dont understand?
nevermind.
read my entry tomorrow then!
WOMEN AS EXPLAINED BY ENGINEERS
Part 1
Part 2
Part 3
Part 4
Part 5

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.Wednesday, December 26, 2007 ' 11:42 PM
(this entry was meant to be posted on 26dec 2007)


if only LOVE was so true and real. "我愛你"

the first time i watched this, i cried so much till my eyes swelled. its true. im not exaggerating. i can still remember, the first time i came across this mv was that very time, one of the hardest period in my entire life. almost everything and anything came tumbling down on me. and this mv somehow just attracted me. at that point of time, i thought, perhaps, my life might be somewhat similar to the mv's.

i was just too silly and naive, perhaps, a little too much.

i dreamt of him last night again. yes. im referring to, ruisheng.

(if you are not really interested in my personal relationship, you can consider clicking on the X at the top right hand corner now)

its another dream whereby everything felt so real, the words we said, our feelings and expressions, everything seemed so real. and once again, i thought, at last, what ive always wished for had come true. but. its another... DREAM.

when i woke up and realise that everything was a dream, tears started flowing down. if you are someone who have known me for a long time, you will definitely find me very foolish and silly. yarhs. i know. even me, myself find myself FOOLISH AND SILLY! it has been 2years, going to 3. and yet, i still cant move on.

perhaps, to the people around me. it seemed as if i have forgotten everything and moved on in life. but, the truth is, I CANT, AND HAVE NOT.

i also dont know why. perhaps, im that kinda of person who 一辈子, 只會喜歡一个人 ba. urms. okay, you can puke for all you want. but, the truth is, I HAVENT MET A GUY WHO CAN TRULY IMPRESS ME AND MAKE ME 心动. but, of course la, i know what kind of girl i am, NEITHER PRETTY NOR HAS CHARACTER.

honestly, im already very grateful to GOD for letting me meet ruisheng. many nice people, in their entire life, they dont even get the chance to enter a relationship. or, there are others, who may have many relationships, but none of them is real, or turned out well. so, if i were to compare myself with others, IM ALREADY A LUCKY GIRL! i know how to count my blessings and thus, i feel very contended already. heee.

i admit, im still waiting. for what, i also dont know. ruisheng already has a girlfriend, but here i am, still holding on those meaningless past. im just so useless! but. there are things in life which are beyond control. perhaps, to me, its this. afterall, 1year10months de memories,不是说忘记就能忘记的. till now, i still cant bear to delete our past smses and stuffs, i also dont know why do i still want to keep them for.

sometimes, i just hope that i will just bump into him on the street. many a time, i will even take a longer bus journey home from jvs area hoping to see him near his granny's house. im so useless! even when the train stops at dover, i will try to look out to see if i might see him. oh my god, what in the world am i doing... but, honestly, i really hope to meet him one day, i really do.

perhaps, both of us may really meet. by then, maybe both of us have already grown up and may just say 'hi' then. like any other friends. as if nothing ever happened between us before. perhaps, perhaps, perhaps, our story will just end that way.

if given a chance, i really wish to know "what was he thinking of that time?"


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.Sunday, December 16, 2007 ' 6:32 PM
I HAVE UPLOADED THE HONGKONG TRIP 2007 PHOTOS!
please visit http://picasaweb.google.com/wendi18/Hongkong2007 to view the photos. enjoy :)

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.Saturday, December 15, 2007 ' 2:20 AM
was supposed to meet yuancheng, benjamin and michelle.

i really cant make it. IM SORRY.

met up with LOUISA they all. and that includes LOUISA, YONGXIN, JOANNE, FITRI and of course JIALING. fitri and jialing come together you see.

we had our dinner at fareast. a small little shop called DELICACY something. the food was, okay okay only, incomparable to what i had in hongkong. ooops.

after which, we shopped around and initially i wanted to get my "HEELS" which i have been wanting to get ages ago. but, eventually, i made a wasted trip. i wasnt in my top form for shopping. pretty tired after sleeping for 12hrs plus. heee.

walked to HEEREN as JOANNE wanted to get a pair of slippers from N.U.M. so. yarhs, we went there.

no size, so we made our way to CINELEISURE. and before i forget,

THE CMAS LIGHTINGS ARE SO BEAUTIFUL!

and i suddenly thought of how i spent last cmas with weiqing.

urms... okay, that wasnt neccessary. BUT. we are still great friends now la. he's happy with his BLISS and im happy with my life. and, WE ARE STILL GOOD FRIENDS!

after cineleisure, we all made our way home.

im still so impressed by the cmas decorations in orchard! so romantic and beautiful... :)

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.Thursday, December 13, 2007 ' 2:10 AM
at last. IM OUT OF MY HOUSE!

okay. before i start, i really have no idea what happened to my previous entry. something went wrong with its paragraph-ing. intially. huifang helped me fix it. but, bcos of my itchy hands, the problem came back.

anyway.

if you are someone whos keen in reading my blog, i dont think you will mind about the paragraph problem right? if IT did disturb you in any way, by all means, DONT READ! well. a blog is first and foremost for me to keep track of what i do everyday, whether or not alot of people read it, honestly, i dont give a damn.

i dont blog for a living ya.

but of course, i will try my utmost best to make my blog interesting and easy to read for those DEAR friends of mine. those who are really interested in my life and wants to be updated about what im doing.

okay, i will try to work out the paragraph problem okay? at least for my friends.

shall start blogging about my first day out eversince coming back from hk.

decided to go out with YIXIAN they all as, like what YIXIAN said.

"you are always out with your two other groups except your mI friends."

so. like any other ordinary human, i DO feel bad about it and thus, i decided to go out with them today.

met YIXIAN and AARON at starbucks.ps and, as usual, i was late. EDWARD, HAROLD and CAROL came soon after i reached and the whole group went to ps to see if we can have our dinner at any nice restaurants.

after much discussion, we decided on "MANHANTTEN FISH MARKET". if that is how you spell it.

the place's so similar to "FISH AND CO." la! not much of a diff. perhaps some different dishes here and there. as for the rest, its almost the same.

after which, we, as in me, YIXIAN, AARON, EDWARD and LOUIS made our way down to PARADIZ CENTRE. they wanted to have shisha.

for further details, please go to yixian.s http://wearingmylingeries.blogspot.com/ cos i dont see the need to reblog everything that yixian had already blogged.

to end, i really didnt regret going out with them. :)

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